When I was mid puberty, I watched my Mum (who I much later figured out was peri-menopausal) have a nervous breakdown. In fact I was the...

On my 59th Birthday, on September 30th, 2023, I embarked on an 11-day pilgrimage to the way of Mary Magdalene in Southern France. This is...

On crossed boundaries, delayed response & why women don't report sexual harassment. The other day I wrote a post about a bizarre...

"It's all about the shadow-work ultimately isn't it?" he said. Truth be told, I didn't really know what he meant. But he was darkly...

There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...

Love isn't always soft and sweet. Sometimes it's fierce and confronting. Other times it firmly asserts boundaries. Love isn't about being...

What Milton's Paradise Lost has to be with the virgin/whore split.

Women seem to have an infinite number of excuses as to why to put their pleasure and well-being last. It doesn't serve anybody.

The more I've awakened sexually & spiritually, the better Mum I've become. The more I've made space for and invested in my own pleasure,...

My recently released book RAPTURE ends with 2 questions, one of which is: What are you making love for? As I sat with a client the other...

You see those vision boards behind me in that picture? Well, tucked away between all those colourful images are two words: "writer" and...

"After doing that meditation on becoming lingam, I have so much more compassion and appreciation for the masculine." Said a female client...

Awakening for women isn't just about the juicy "feminine" stuff: we have to clear our body-mind of patriarchy.

This morning a one-to-one client wrote to me: "I feel like something has really shifted. Amazing that we do all this work in our heads,...

When I was a young teen, I nicked my sister's copy of "The Exorcist". Bloody hell! I wish I hadn't, but I couldn't help myself once I'd...