To be a pilgrim
On my 59th Birthday, on September 30th, 2023, I embarked on an 11-day pilgrimage to the way of Mary Magdalene in Southern France. This is...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 10, 20233 min read
The greatest love affair of all
“How much we know and understand ourselves is critically important, but there is something even more essential to living a wholehearted...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 22, 20233 min read
THE WOUNDED MAIDEN
When I was doing the first year of a psychodynamic couples therapy training, we read a lot of stuff by Freud et al. The basic premise...
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Shakti Sundari
May 18, 20223 min read
Shadow feminine - which one are you?
There can be a lot of blame and shame talk about men and their sexual shadow. And it's understandable, when there is a history of so much...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
The sovereign sexual woman code
I am a Sovereign Sexual Woman. I do not have to explain or defend my choices. I am not here to rescue, heal or save anybody. Nor do I...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
What does it mean to be a sovereign sexual woman?
Being a Sovereign Sexual Woman doesn’t mean you think about sex all the time, want sex all the time or are necessarily even sexually...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
Being a sovereign sexual woman
She doesn’t say “how could he do this to me?” But “why did I allow it? What belief or wounding within me is resonant with dis-respect?...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 23, 20222 min read
Tantra isn't all about sex you know
There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 14, 20223 min read
if you want better sex, you've gotta stop thinking about it
I got a pm yesterday from a man interested in my upcoming TANTRIC TEMPLE workshop (Saturday, 26th March, 2022, here in London if you're...
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Shakti Sundari
Nov 8, 20213 min read
Why do we avoid that which so nourishes us?
Women seem to have an infinite number of excuses as to why to put their pleasure and well-being last. It doesn't serve anybody.
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Shakti Sundari
Sep 27, 20212 min read
The Lie
The opening chapter in my forthcoming book RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for Women, is titled "Everything you've been...
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Shakti Sundari
Sep 19, 20212 min read
The 4 "p's" of pleasure
Want to know the secrets to ultimate sensual PLEASURE ? In my forthcoming book - RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for...
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Shakti Sundari
Jul 7, 20212 min read
EMOTIONAL ALCHEMY
For far too long, emotions have been wrapped in shame, denial and judgement. In the patriarchal belief system, which has dominated our...
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Shakti Sundari
Jun 14, 20213 min read
WHY HEALING THROUGH THE BODY IS ESSENTIAL IF YOU WANT TRUE & LASTING CHANGE
This morning a one-to-one client wrote to me: "I feel like something has really shifted. Amazing that we do all this work in our heads,...
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Shakti Sundari
Jun 6, 20213 min read
EVIL vs LIVE
When I was a young teen, I nicked my sister's copy of "The Exorcist". Bloody hell! I wish I hadn't, but I couldn't help myself once I'd...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 12, 20215 min read
I want to be sexual, but I'm afraid to be
The Sarah Everard case has stirred up a lot of debate about men's sexual violence towards women and what is needed for women to feel...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 11, 20212 min read
Blind spots & rose-tinted glasses
My theme right now is SAFETY. Feeling safe to own & embody your sexuality - fully. Feeling safe to relate. Feeling safe to be intimate....
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20212 min read
What do you need to feel safe?
My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...
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