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Shakti Sundari
Feb 10, 20233 min read
The greatest love affair of all
“How much we know and understand ourselves is critically important, but there is something even more essential to living a wholehearted...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 12, 20215 min read
I want to be sexual, but I'm afraid to be
The Sarah Everard case has stirred up a lot of debate about men's sexual violence towards women and what is needed for women to feel...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 11, 20212 min read
Blind spots & rose-tinted glasses
My theme right now is SAFETY. Feeling safe to own & embody your sexuality - fully. Feeling safe to relate. Feeling safe to be intimate....
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20212 min read
What do you need to feel safe?
My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 1, 20214 min read
The Virgin/Whore Split
Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 18, 20213 min read
Already Enough
So, on Valentine's Day just gone, my lover and I ended our relationship. It was a beautiful, conscious ending, full of love, respect and...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 5, 20214 min read
We are all walking one another home
On last Thursday's Full Moon, I had a total melt-down. It had been building for a while. A slow build, like a pressure cooker. And on...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 28, 20215 min read
The Love Journey
To find true love, we have to heal our wounds and be the one we are seeking.
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 22, 20204 min read
Calling in "the One"
As a Libran with Libra rising, you could say it's written in the stars for me to be a romantic obsessed with relationship. Even in my...
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 17, 20203 min read
It's never about the man
The hurt you are feeling is never about the man: it's about your unhealed wounds with the masculine. It's a wake-up call to heal & transform
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 6, 20203 min read
Making Peace with Man
My life has been defined by the quest to heal the wounds of patriarchy. What was once a curse, is now a blessing into wholeness.
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Shakti Sundari
Nov 9, 20202 min read
Meeting the masculine 2
The wounds of our fathers, the conditioning of our society teach women to look outside themselves for love and completion.
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Shakti Sundari
Nov 1, 20203 min read
Meeting the Masculine
The relationship women have with their inner masculine will be reflected in their outer relationship with men.
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Shakti Sundari
Oct 6, 20202 min read
listen to her
The feminine is aching to be felt and heard. When She is received, She blesses & blossoms forth. The world urgently needs this re-balancing.
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Shakti Sundari
Sep 5, 20202 min read
attacking comes from unhealed pain
How much of all the verbal abuse and reactivity that's flying about in the world originates in trauma?
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