On crossed boundaries, delayed response & why women don't report sexual harassment. The other day I wrote a post about a bizarre...

Hot on the heels of my Like A Pro training on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent (the gold standard, when it comes to boundaries and...

Well, on the eve of Valentine's Day, I thought I'd share another tale from my Radical Honesty weekend. One of my reasons for attending...

How apt to have arrived back from a weekend in Amsterdam at a Radical Honesty workshop with the fab duo Pete Jordan and Tuulia Syvänen,...

I I was sharing with some beautiful friends yesterday about a toxic "relationship" I was in - 2016-17 - with a narcissist. They asked me...

"It's all about the shadow-work ultimately isn't it?" he said. Truth be told, I didn't really know what he meant. But he was darkly...

There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...

People often think, that when sex isn't as great as they'd love it to be, that there's something "wrong" with their genitals, their...

When I took my Nia Technique White Belt Training back in January 2003, we were taught about The Four Agreements. Those agreements have...

I'm reading Charlotte Bronte's Jane Eyre right now to support my daughter, who's writing about it for her A-level English course. Figured...

My recently released book RAPTURE ends with 2 questions, one of which is: What are you making love for? As I sat with a client the other...

For far too long, emotions have been wrapped in shame, denial and judgement. In the patriarchal belief system, which has dominated our...

Believe it or not, I only learned about boundaries & consent in my first tantra workshop. At the tender age of 40 something. And it blew...