boundaries | shaktisundari

Jul 5, 20237 min read

Why didn't you just say no?!

On crossed boundaries, delayed response & why women don't report sexual harassment. The other day I wrote a post about a bizarre...

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Jun 10, 20233 min read

Talking is taking

Hot on the heels of my Like A Pro training on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent (the gold standard, when it comes to boundaries and...

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Jun 6, 20222 min read

THE 3 TANTRIC KEYS: LOVE, SANCTITY & SURRENDER

I was meditating this morning on my best ever sexual experiences to-date. "To-date" being important to note, since I anticipate my...

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Jun 4, 20222 min read

Healthily selfish

Let's talk about being selfish. In my own journey of healing and personal growth, I began to recognise, that what I thought was "selfish"...

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May 18, 20223 min read

Shadow feminine - which one are you?

There can be a lot of blame and shame talk about men and their sexual shadow. And it's understandable, when there is a history of so much...

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Feb 17, 20222 min read

Tough Love

Love isn't always soft and sweet. Sometimes it's fierce and confronting. Other times it firmly asserts boundaries. Love isn't about being...

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Oct 21, 20213 min read

What are you making love for?

My recently released book RAPTURE ends with 2 questions, one of which is: What are you making love for? As I sat with a client the other...

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Jul 7, 20212 min read

EMOTIONAL ALCHEMY

For far too long, emotions have been wrapped in shame, denial and judgement. In the patriarchal belief system, which has dominated our...

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Mar 4, 20212 min read

Boundaries & Consent

Believe it or not, I only learned about boundaries & consent in my first tantra workshop. At the tender age of 40 something. And it blew...

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