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Shakti Sundari
May 18, 20223 min read
Shadow feminine - which one are you?
There can be a lot of blame and shame talk about men and their sexual shadow. And it's understandable, when there is a history of so much...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
The sovereign sexual woman code
I am a Sovereign Sexual Woman. I do not have to explain or defend my choices. I am not here to rescue, heal or save anybody. Nor do I...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
What does it mean to be a sovereign sexual woman?
Being a Sovereign Sexual Woman doesn’t mean you think about sex all the time, want sex all the time or are necessarily even sexually...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
Being a sovereign sexual woman
She doesn’t say “how could he do this to me?” But “why did I allow it? What belief or wounding within me is resonant with dis-respect?...
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Shakti Sundari
May 13, 20222 min read
How your dating, relating & sexuality are related
Patriarchy teaches us to divide and separate. It's a belief system that disconnects us from what is organically inter-woven. Such as sex...
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Shakti Sundari
Apr 19, 20223 min read
From better sex to self-realisation
There are all kinds of interpretations and expressions of the tantric path. The most common one I encounter is the assumption that it's...
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Shakti Sundari
Apr 7, 20222 min read
Whole-istic sexuality
" Your sexuality is wholistic, encompassing your connection with all the interwoven, inseparable facets of your wondrous self and all...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 31, 20222 min read
The fountain of youth
I was talking to a male friend earlier today. He's a meditation teacher, who's been devoted to his practice for at least 15 years. He's...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 23, 20222 min read
Tantra isn't all about sex you know
There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 14, 20223 min read
if you want better sex, you've gotta stop thinking about it
I got a pm yesterday from a man interested in my upcoming TANTRIC TEMPLE workshop (Saturday, 26th March, 2022, here in London if you're...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20222 min read
Polarity promotes pleasure
I shared a provocative post in my Living Shakti Awake FB group the other day about a man fucking his woman open. Some members loved it....
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20222 min read
THE MIND IS THE BIGGEST BARRIER TO PLEASURE
People often think, that when sex isn't as great as they'd love it to be, that there's something "wrong" with their genitals, their...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 24, 20223 min read
Assumptions prevent connection
When I took my Nia Technique White Belt Training back in January 2003, we were taught about The Four Agreements. Those agreements have...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 23, 20223 min read
On SPIRITUAL BY-PASSING & HYPOCRISY
I'm reading Charlotte Bronte's Jane Eyre right now to support my daughter, who's writing about it for her A-level English course. Figured...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 21, 20223 min read
The tantric bliss of body & no-mind
So, TANTRA, whether you're called to full self-realisation or just better sex, requires you to be IN YOUR BODY. Fully. But the thing is...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 17, 20222 min read
Tough Love
Love isn't always soft and sweet. Sometimes it's fierce and confronting. Other times it firmly asserts boundaries. Love isn't about being...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 1, 20222 min read
Dying to the new
1/1/22 Loving that number ! Looking at my phone screen this morning and seeing the digit "1" and the red dot at the very start of a new...
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20212 min read
Your emotions are written in your body
Your emotions and psyche are written into your body. However beautiful your exterior, any sensitive soul can read you like a book.
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20212 min read
What is presence?
So on the back of a very popular post about how looks are not the most important thing for me in attraction, I've been asked by a man to...
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20213 min read
Your looks are almost last on my list
The other day I made a light-hearted post about how delicious it would be to go on a date with "a gorgeous, sexy, conscious man". All the...
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