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Your emotions are written in your body
Your emotions and psyche are written into your body. However beautiful your exterior, any sensitive soul can read you like a book.
Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20212 min read
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What is presence?
So on the back of a very popular post about how looks are not the most important thing for me in attraction, I've been asked by a man to...
Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20212 min read
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Your looks are almost last on my list
The other day I made a light-hearted post about how delicious it would be to go on a date with "a gorgeous, sexy, conscious man". All the...
Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20213 min read
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Paradise Lost
What Milton's Paradise Lost has to be with the virgin/whore split.
Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20213 min read
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Why do we avoid that which so nourishes us?
Women seem to have an infinite number of excuses as to why to put their pleasure and well-being last. It doesn't serve anybody.
Shakti Sundari
Nov 8, 20213 min read
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The Lie
The opening chapter in my forthcoming book RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for Women, is titled "Everything you've been...
Shakti Sundari
Sep 27, 20212 min read
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The 4 "p's" of pleasure
Want to know the secrets to ultimate sensual PLEASURE ? In my forthcoming book - RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for...
Shakti Sundari
Sep 19, 20212 min read
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The nectar of being
As I continue my recovery from covid, one of the impacts I'm aware of is the impairment of 3 of my key senses: - taste - smell - hearing...
Shakti Sundari
Sep 15, 20211 min read
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On loving up the masculine
"After doing that meditation on becoming lingam, I have so much more compassion and appreciation for the masculine." Said a female client...
Shakti Sundari
Aug 10, 20213 min read
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Women uphold patriarchy too
Awakening for women isn't just about the juicy "feminine" stuff: we have to clear our body-mind of patriarchy.
Shakti Sundari
Aug 10, 20212 min read
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WHY HEALING THROUGH THE BODY IS ESSENTIAL IF YOU WANT TRUE & LASTING CHANGE
This morning a one-to-one client wrote to me: "I feel like something has really shifted. Amazing that we do all this work in our heads,...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 14, 20213 min read
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EVIL vs LIVE
When I was a young teen, I nicked my sister's copy of "The Exorcist". Bloody hell! I wish I hadn't, but I couldn't help myself once I'd...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 6, 20213 min read
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I want to be sexual, but I'm afraid to be
The Sarah Everard case has stirred up a lot of debate about men's sexual violence towards women and what is needed for women to feel...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 12, 20215 min read
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Blind spots & rose-tinted glasses
My theme right now is SAFETY. Feeling safe to own & embody your sexuality - fully. Feeling safe to relate. Feeling safe to be intimate....
Shakti Sundari
Mar 11, 20212 min read
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The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
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Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
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Boundaries & Consent
Believe it or not, I only learned about boundaries & consent in my first tantra workshop. At the tender age of 40 something. And it blew...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 4, 20212 min read
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What do you need to feel safe?
My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20212 min read
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The Virgin/Whore Split
Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 1, 20214 min read
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Already Enough
So, on Valentine's Day just gone, my lover and I ended our relationship. It was a beautiful, conscious ending, full of love, respect and...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 18, 20213 min read
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