When I was mid puberty, I watched my Mum (who I much later figured out was peri-menopausal) have a nervous breakdown. In fact I was the...

On my 59th Birthday, on September 30th, 2023, I embarked on an 11-day pilgrimage to the way of Mary Magdalene in Southern France. This is...

Ejaculation/orgasm focussed sex breeds discontent. Read on to find out why.

When I was doing the first year of a psychodynamic couples therapy training, we read a lot of stuff by Freud et al. The basic premise...

I was meditating this morning on my best ever sexual experiences to-date. "To-date" being important to note, since I anticipate my...

Snakes have gotten a bad rap. In the Bible, of course, they are associated with sin and Satan. We have been taught to fear them. Just as...

There can be a lot of blame and shame talk about men and their sexual shadow. And it's understandable, when there is a history of so much...

Being a Sovereign Sexual Woman doesn’t mean you think about sex all the time, want sex all the time or are necessarily even sexually...

She doesn’t say “how could he do this to me?” But “why did I allow it? What belief or wounding within me is resonant with dis-respect?...

Patriarchy teaches us to divide and separate. It's a belief system that disconnects us from what is organically inter-woven. Such as sex...

There are all kinds of interpretations and expressions of the tantric path. The most common one I encounter is the assumption that it's...

" Your sexuality is wholistic, encompassing your connection with all the interwoven, inseparable facets of your wondrous self and all...

I was talking to a male friend earlier today. He's a meditation teacher, who's been devoted to his practice for at least 15 years. He's...

There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...

I got a pm yesterday from a man interested in my upcoming TANTRIC TEMPLE workshop (Saturday, 26th March, 2022, here in London if you're...

I shared a provocative post in my Living Shakti Awake FB group the other day about a man fucking his woman open. Some members loved it....

People often think, that when sex isn't as great as they'd love it to be, that there's something "wrong" with their genitals, their...

So, TANTRA, whether you're called to full self-realisation or just better sex, requires you to be IN YOUR BODY. Fully. But the thing is...

What Milton's Paradise Lost has to be with the virgin/whore split.

Women seem to have an infinite number of excuses as to why to put their pleasure and well-being last. It doesn't serve anybody.