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Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read
Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 4, 20212 min read
Boundaries & Consent
Believe it or not, I only learned about boundaries & consent in my first tantra workshop. At the tender age of 40 something. And it blew...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20212 min read
What do you need to feel safe?
My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...
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Shakti Sundari
Mar 1, 20214 min read
The Virgin/Whore Split
Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 28, 20213 min read
Stop Comparing !
I'm blessed to do what I love and be guided to show up in the world as I do. Because of my public presence and work, I am constantly...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 18, 20213 min read
Already Enough
So, on Valentine's Day just gone, my lover and I ended our relationship. It was a beautiful, conscious ending, full of love, respect and...
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Shakti Sundari
Feb 5, 20214 min read
We are all walking one another home
On last Thursday's Full Moon, I had a total melt-down. It had been building for a while. A slow build, like a pressure cooker. And on...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 28, 20215 min read
The Love Journey
To find true love, we have to heal our wounds and be the one we are seeking.
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 20, 20213 min read
The only way out is in
When something feels uncomfortable or confronting, it's natural to seek relief. Common relief mechanisms include: * getting busy doing...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 20, 20212 min read
Meditation as Woman
If I could name the one thing that has radically changed my life, it is meditation. Meditation as a daily practice has enabled me to: -...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 15, 20213 min read
Your soul-purposed blossoming !
Hey there You! I'd like to check in with you about your why for being here. What turns you on, what lights you up, what gets you excited,...
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 4, 20214 min read
THE VALUE OF A MENTOR
Awakening as a woman is a heroine's quest that requires more than just the odd transcendent experience at a weekend workshop.
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Shakti Sundari
Jan 2, 20211 min read
My "WHY?"
Why I do what I do as a Teacher of Embodied Awareness & Awakening for Women.
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 17, 20203 min read
It's never about the man
The hurt you are feeling is never about the man: it's about your unhealed wounds with the masculine. It's a wake-up call to heal & transform
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Shakti Sundari
Dec 6, 20203 min read
Making Peace with Man
My life has been defined by the quest to heal the wounds of patriarchy. What was once a curse, is now a blessing into wholeness.
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Shakti Sundari
Nov 13, 20203 min read
The Father Wound
So long as I was a sweet little girl: pretty, smaller, trusting, compliant - all was well. The minute my woman energy began downloading,...
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Shakti Sundari
Nov 9, 20202 min read
Meeting the masculine 2
The wounds of our fathers, the conditioning of our society teach women to look outside themselves for love and completion.
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Shakti Sundari
Nov 1, 20203 min read
Meeting the Masculine
The relationship women have with their inner masculine will be reflected in their outer relationship with men.
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Shakti Sundari
Oct 20, 20203 min read
Sex and Heart
Tantra teaches us that the sex-heart connection is fundamental to awakening & spiritual ecstasy. But what does this look like in reality?
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